Jessica Stoya

Articles by Jessica Stoya

Sex advice: My sister just told me the tale of her latest hookup. I'm very concerned. - Slate

Health August 20, 2026

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My Boyfriend Tries So Hard in Bed. But Unfortunately, He Can’t Come Close to My Tried and True Method. - Slate Magazine

Technology July 15, 2026

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There Was Only One Solution to My Problem … Down There. It’s Opened Up Pandora’s Box. - Slate Magazine

Technology July 9, 2026

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Sex advice: I heard something ghastly can happen in bed to women like me. I need to change that. - Slate Magazine

Health July 8, 2026

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My Boyfriend and I Signed Up for a Summer of Madness. Now Our Sex Life Is Reaping the Consequences. - Slate Magazine

Health July 2, 2026

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I Was Fine to Give the Guy I Was Hooking Up With an Assist the First Few Times. But Three Strikes and You’re Out. - slate.com

Health June 25, 2026

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My Husband Associated a Very Strange Thing With Sex When He Was Young. He Still Can’t Shake It. - Slate

Health April 16, 2026

How to Do It is Slates sex advice column.Β Have a question?Β Send it to Stoya and Rich here.Β Its anonymous! Dear How to Do It,Β  I know how stupid this is, but every time my husband sees a taco, he...

Sex advice: Ever since we had a baby, my wife says one part of sex is off limits. It makes no sense. - Slate

Health December 25, 2025

How to Do It is Slates sex advice column.Β Have a question?Β Send it to Stoya and Rich here.Β Its anonymous! Dear How to Do It, My wife and I used to attend sex parties all the time. Ever since she ...

My Husband’s … Package Is Completely Different Now. He’s Embarrassed, But I’m Not Ready to Give Up This Part of Our Life. - Slate

Health December 4, 2025

How to Do It is Slates sex advice column.Β Have a question?Β Send it to Stoya and Rich here.Β Its anonymous! Dear How to Do It,Β  My 65-year-old husband (I am a 45-year-old woman) got a prostatectom...

I Have a Very Strange Reaction to Going Down on My Wife. I Can’t for the Life of Me Figure Out Why. - Slate

Health December 3, 2025

How to Do It is Slates sex advice column.Β Have a question?Β Send it to Stoya and Rich here.Β Its anonymous! Dear How to Do It,Β  I am a 47-year-old man married to a 42-year-old woman. My wife and I...